📖 Overview

Household balance is not only physical chores.

This tool adds planning and coordination load so the split reflects real effort.

Use it to make workload conversations concrete and easier to rebalance.

🧪 Example Scenarios

Use these default and higher-pressure example inputs to explore how sensitive this calculator is before using your real numbers.

InputBase CaseHigher Pressure Case
Your Weekly Chore Hours1113.2
Partner Weekly Chore Hours89.6
Your Mental Load Points1416.1
Partner Mental Load Points1011.5

⚙️ How It Works

Scores contribution fairness across both visible work and invisible planning load.

The Formula

Balance Score ≈ 100 − (|Your Share − 50%| × 2)
Your ShareYour combined share of effort from all entered inputs
50%Perfectly balanced split target
Balance Score100 is even split; lower values indicate higher imbalance
💡The score is a conversation aid. It should inform workload decisions, not replace context or empathy.

Quick Reference

Your shareBalance scoreStatus
50%100Even split
57%86Slight imbalance
65%70Moderate imbalance
75%50High imbalance

When To Use This

  • Use this tool when you need a fast decision during active planning or execution.
  • Use this before committing money, time, or tradeoffs that are hard to reverse.
  • Use this to compare options using the same assumptions across scenarios.

Edge Cases To Watch

  • Results can be misleading if key inputs are missing, stale, or unrealistic.
  • Very small or very large values may amplify rounding effects and interpretation risk.
  • If assumptions change mid-decision, recalculate before acting.

Practical Tips

💡 Use the score to start a practical conversation, not to “win” an argument.
💡 Recalculate after role changes or busy periods.
💡 Track trend month to month instead of reacting to one snapshot.

Frequently Asked Questions

❓ Why include mental load?

Planning and coordination often consume real effort beyond task hours.

❓ Is 100 perfect equality?

Yes, 100 is equal split by entered values.